I don’t have an answer. But I do know that I find my time far better spent looking at old Andy Griffith shows. Take for instance yesterday. There was Andy Griffith in his Andy Taylor role getting ready to punish his son Opie for lying to his father about his recent school report card. But Opie was nowhere to be found. And on Opie’s bed was a note explaining to his dad that Opie had decided to run away.
When Andy Taylor found Opie walking on the road out of town, Andy’s first question to his son was why was he running away? And Opie explained. He felt he had let his father down with his bad grades and his failure to tell him of his grades and Opie had decided to run away and to find a way to do something that might work to earn back his father’s respect for Opie.
And that’s when Andy sat down with Opie and told him that he, Andy, had been wrong to make it seem that all that mattered to him was that Opie had gotten wonderful grades. Opie, his father said to him, you always only need to do the best that you can. In the end, I love and respect you for who you are and not for what your grades are.
And I thought .... Amen.
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